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Remembering Clemmie Bodenhamer 100 Years Later

17 Friday Jan 2025

Posted by Generations of Nomads in Family history, Genealogy, Slavery, Women's History

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Clementine Esther (Bodenhamer) Owen, date unknown, family collection

I was about 15 when I began piecing together my family history and gathering names of my ancestors. I learned that I had a great great grandmother named Clementine Bodenhamer and I was smitten. Who could resist such a fine name?

Clementine “Clemmie” Esther Bodenhamer was born in Marshfield, Webster County, Missouri on January 30, 1854 and probably died in Coffeyville, Kansas on January 13, 1925, 100 years ago this week. She was the only child of Elizabeth Jane Goldsberry (1833-1888) and (probably) John Bodenhamer (1836-1862).

In 1860 Clementine (6) and Elizabeth Bodenhamer (26) were living in Greene County on the 1,000 acre farm of John’s newly deceased father, Jacob (1790-1860) with his widowed mother, Fernita “Neaty” (Goss) Bodenhamer (1795-1863) and three of his brothers. I have not found a record of Elizabeth’s marriage, but John is the most likely Bodenhamer son to have been Clemmie’s father. He is said to have fought in the Civil War for the Confederacy and died in 1862, although I am not aware of a record of his service or death (yes, there’s lots of conjecture and research to be done!)

Jacob Bodenhamer’s death was followed by Neaty’s in 1863. Clemmie’s childhood circumstances on the large Bodenhamer farm must have changed significantly during those years. Jacob and Neaty had somewhere between 17 and 20 children. They were slaveholders, with eight individuals enslaved by Jacob at the time of his death. (More on this in a post yet to come). Seven of their sons served during the Civil War—five for the Union and two for the Confederacy.

As the farm property was broken up and John died or disappeared, it is unclear where Clemmie and Elizabeth went until about 1868 when Elizabeth married Joshua Hamilton (1810-1889), a farmer 23 years her senior from Marshfield, Missouri. Joshua was twice widowed with ten children.

Elizabeth Jane (Goldsberry) Bodenhamer Hamilton, date unknown. Image courtesy of Nancy Hamilton Wright.

On Christmas Eve, 1871, Clemmie (17) and James Washington Owen (23) were married in Marshfield. Like many of Clemmie’s relatives, James was born in Rowan County, North Carolina, and moved west to Greene County, Missouri with his family as a child. At the time of their marriage James and five younger siblings were living on the family farm, where he was a farm hand.

Missouri Marriage Records, 1805-2002

Between the 1873 and 1875 births of their first two children, Clemmie and James moved from Greene County to Webster County. The 1880 Census lists James as “keeping a wagon yard.” By the time Clemmie was 32 in 1886 she had given birth to four sons and three daughters. Clyde, Daisy, John, Maud, and Stella (my great grandmother), all lived to adulthood, but Clemmie and James lost their last two sons very young.

The late 1880s must have been particularly difficult for the Owen family. Babies Oscar and Bertie died in 1885 and 1887; Clemmie’s mother, Elizabeth, died in 1888; and then James died in 1889 at age 41. James’ death seems to have been expected. His will, written three months before his death, states that he is “weak in body but strong and vigorous in mind.” He authorizes Clemmie to dispose of personal property and real estate in order to reinvest the proceeds for the care of herself and the children. He stipulates that their 320 acre farm on Derrick Prairie be retained until their youngest child comes of age “so that my family can be sure of a house…or can get the proceeds of the rents.” James also asks that Clemmie sell his interest in a lumber company.

James Washington Owen, date unknown, family collection

Clemmie remained on the farm until at least 1900, when the census lists her as a farmer, sons Clyde (27) and John (23) as farm laborers, and daughter Maud (20) also in residence. Daughters Daisy and Stella had married and moved away. In 1901 Maud married Alvin Jackson, an order clerk at a wholesale house. Clemmie was living with them and their two young sons in Springfield, Missouri in 1910.

Clemmie, location and date unknown, family collection

Sadly, by 1920 Maud was a patient at Missouri State Hospital No. 3, a psychiatric hospital in Nevada, Missouri, where she remained for many years. Perhaps for this reason, Clemmie moved by 1920 to the Coffeyville, Kansas home of her daughter, Stella (Owen) Miller and her husband Frank. Three granddaughters, Marjorie, Thelma, and Esther Jane (my grandmother), must have made a lively household. I don’t know the details of Clemmie’s last years, whether she stayed in Coffeyville until her death in January 1925 at age 70. She is buried in Marshfield, Missouri with her husband and two of their children.

112 W. 2nd Street, Coffeyville, Kansas home of Stella and Frank Miller in 1920

In The Marshfield Mail on February 9, 1933, a chatty society columnist wrote nearly ten years after Clemmie’s death, “At her death she left a fine memorial behind. That of a kind, good mother and a loyal Christian woman. Today we heard a friend of hers remark, ‘I believe Clemmie Owen was one among the best women I ever knew.’” She is remembered.

Marshfield Cemetery, Marshfield, Missouri

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Jacob and Fernita “Neaty” (Goss) Bodenhamer, 4th great grandparents

John (probably) and Elizabeth (Goldsberry) Bodenhamer, 3rd great grandparents

James Washington and Clementine Esther (Bodenhamer) Owen, 2nd great grandparents

Stella (Owen) Miller, great grandmother

William Edward Stephenson, Jr., father

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Foremothers Get the Vote

18 Tuesday Aug 2020

Posted by Generations of Nomads in Family history, Genealogy, Uncategorized, Women's History

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The 19th Amendment, which gave many (but not all) women the right to vote in the United States was ratified 100 years ago today and this anniversary has me thinking of the women in my family who won the vote. Six of my direct ancestors were of voting age when women’s suffrage became legal in August 1920–one grandmother, three great grandmothers, and two great great grandmothers. As my ancestors always were, these women were scattered around the country. Two were in Maryland; one was in Missouri; and three were in Kansas.

Elsie Mills (1899-1993) – Elsie Mills (later Oliver) was my maternal grandmother. In August 1920, she was 21 years old and living in Baltimore, Maryland. She was the eldest child of James Mills, an English-born physician who taught at Johns Hopkins Medical School, and his wife, Mary Carroll (Hill) Mills (more on her below). Elsie was a budding painter, studying at the Maryland Institute of Art. They lived at 853 Park Avenue, Ward 11.

Mary Carroll (Hill) Mills (1876-1937) – Mary Mills (known as “Dear” to her family), my great grandmother, was 44 years old when the 19th Amendment was ratified. She was born and raised in Baltimore City, and married her husband, James at the age of 23. In 1920, Dear and her family, Elsie (age 21), Audrey (age 17), Jimmy (age 15) and Mary Carroll (age 12), along with “Ma” Seaton, the 65 year old Irish cook, lived in a modest row house not far from the Johns Hopkins Hospital and School of Medicine, where James practiced and taught.

853 Park Avenue, Baltimore, Maryland

I don’t know when Elsie and her mother Mary may have actually first voted. There was a legal fight against allowing Maryland women to vote that was resolved by the U.S. Supreme Court in 1922. (Women won the vote!) But Maryland did not vote to ratify the 19th Amendment until 1941.

Alice Christine (Sheely) Stephenson (1878-1958) – When the 19th Amendment was ratified, my great grandmother, Alice, was 42 years old. She was born in Indiana, the daughter of a Presbyterian minister, and attended Western College and Seminary for Women in Oxford, Ohio before her 1899 marriage at age 21 to R.W. (Richard) Stephenson. In 1920, she and R.W. lived at 250 Clark Street, Ward 4, Augusta, Kansas, with their three sons, Paul (age 17), William (my paternal grandfather, age 9), and Clark (age 8). She was a prolific water color painter.

Stella Lee (Owen) Miller (1881-1942) – Stella Miller, my great grandmother, was 39 in 1920. Born and raised on a farm in Webster County, Missouri, she had been married to her husband, Franklin Pierce Miller, a former school teacher and banker for 21 years. She had three living daughters at home–Marjorie (age 19), Thelma (age 16), and Esther Jane (my paternal grandmother, age 6) and had lost her third daughter, Nellie, several years earlier. Stella’s mother, Clementine Esther (Bodenhamer) Owen (more below), was also living with the Millers in 1920. They lived at 112 West 2nd Street, Ward 2, Coffeyville, Kansas.

112 West 2nd Street, Coffeyville, Kansas

Clementine Esther (Bodenhamer) Owen (1854-1925) – In 1920, my great great grandmother Clemmie Owen was 66 years old. She was born in Marshfield, Missouri to parents who had both migrated there from North Carolina. Clemmie’s father appears to have abandoned his wife, Elizabeth, and Clemmie when she was very young. Elizabeth remarried in 1860 and Clemmie was raised by her stepfather, Joshua Hamilton, a farmer in Ozark, Missouri. She married James Washington Owen (1848-1889) at 17. By the time she was 35, she was a widow and had given birth to seven children, lost two of them, and had lost her mother. When the 19th Amendment was ratified in 1920, Clemmie was living in Coffeyville, Kansas with her youngest daughter, Stella.

While Kansas ratified the 19th Amendment, women were already allowed to vote in local elections there starting in 1887, and in 1912 won universal voting rights. So perhaps Alice Stephenson and Stella Miller had already been voting for years. Clemmie Owen moved from Missouri, (where women did not have the right to vote until 1920), to Kansas between 1910 and 1920, and may have seen the 1920 ratification as a new opportunity.

Amanda Jane (Hahn) Miller (1849-1942) – My great great grandmother Amanda Jane Miller was 71 in 1920 when the 19th Amendment was ratified. She was born in Columbiana County, Ohio, raised on her family’s farm, the fourth of sixth children. According to the 1940 Census, Amanda attended college for two years, presumably before 1870, when she married John Fremont Miller at age 21. For the first 15 years of their marriage they had a farm in Stark County, Ohio, where six sons were born, including my great grandfather, Franklin Pierce Miller. By 1885 they had moved the family to Webster County, Missouri, where the Miller family established a thriving farm and had two more children. A biographical sketch about John Miller indicates that he was active in Democratic Party politics, so perhaps Amanda joined him in casting her vote.

Of course, I don’t actually know when or where or even if any of these women cast their votes, but I love thinking of each of them hearing the news 100 years ago that they had the right: my Granny (the only one of these six I actually knew) as a very young woman; Mary, Alice, and Stella, each with a house full of kids; Clemmie, long a widow and grandmother, living her last years in her daughter’s home; and Amanda, at home on the farm with her husband John, having raised her large family. My next vote will be cast in memory of them all.

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Discovered While Hunkered Down at Home: Nellie Miller

13 Monday Apr 2020

Posted by Generations of Nomads in Genealogy, Uncategorized

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Coffeyville, Kansas, Keith, Marshfield, Miller, Missouri, Owen, Willbern

Nellie M. Miller (1908-1916), about age 6.

Isn’t she precious?

Like many of us this housebound spring, I’ve been finding it hard to concentrate well enough to blog or even read much. But rummaging through old pictures is a perfect distraction.

My pictures are horribly unorganized (I know! A perfect quarantine project…) but I thought I knew what I had. To my delight, yesterday’s finds included three envelopes of pictures (1915-1980s) given to me years ago by my Aunt Marjorie (Miller) Willbern, my grandmother’s sister and my godmother. And out popped this picture of their sister Nellie M. Miller, which I don’t remember having seen before.

I don’t know much about Aunt Nell. She was the third child of Frank and Stella (Owen) Miller, born in 1908 after her family moved from Marshfield, Missouri to Coffeyville, Kansas and she died in Shawnee, Oklahoma in 1916.

Stella (Owen) Miller with daughters (l-r) Marjorie, Nell, and Thelma. Taken about 1908.

I’ve always loved this picture of Stella with her first three daughters, and the one below, taken when Nellie was two and looking very solemn. Nellie was six when my grandmother, Esther Jane Miller was born in 1914, and sadly, she died at age eight a week before Grandma turned two. Finding the sweet image of her in hat, coat, and boots pleases me so much–she is not forgotten.

Nellie at age 2 at a large gathering of Miller cousins in 1910.

According to Nellie’s obituary in The Marshfield (Missouri ) Mail, she died of diphtheria on January 2, 1916. The article is effusive about Nell’s talents as a violinist who was “much sought after,” her charm, and her beauty.

Postscript: My great grandmother Stella gave birth to five daughters between 1901 and 1923. Martha Lee Miller, her fifth daughter, was born on August 11, 1923, but sadly died two days later.

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