Tags
Architecture, Baltimore, Baltimore Cathedral, Benjamin Henry Latrobe, Benjamin Latrobe, Cardinal James Gibbons, Family history, Genealogy, Hill, Maryland, Mills, wedding
When I visited Baltimore in April, exploring the places where my mother’s family lived, worshiped, studied, and worked, I hadn’t yet discovered the wedding announcement that appeared in the Baltimore Sun on June 1, 1898. What a gem! So today I remember my great grandparents, Mary Carroll Hill and Dr. James J. Mills, married 120 years ago today and return to two of the places I visited last month.

Mary Carroll (Hill) Mills in 1915 at age 40. This picture reminds me so much of her daughter Elsie, my grandmother.
The wedding in the grand Baltimore Cathedral is described in exquisite detail in the article below, so I’ll stick to a few highlights.
Major Nicholas Snowden Hill, father of the bride (my 2nd great grandfather) walked Mary down the aisle. Oddly, there is no mention anywhere of the mother of the bride, Mary (Cocke) (Johnson) Hill.
The large cast of clergy was led by the eminent Cardinal James Gibbons, a close friend of Major Hill. With four priests officiating in red and white vestments embroidered in gold, it must have been quite a spectacle.
I’m loving the detail in this article, with vivid fashion descriptions, down to the orange blossoms fastening the bride’s veil and her bouquet of white sweet peas, a description of the church decorations, and an account of all the music.
Seeing the names of the bridesmaids, ushers, and a long list of guests invited to the wedding breakfast at the bride’s parents’ house got me curious, and I’ve been down the rabbit hole looking up bridesmaids, ushers, and wedding guests. No big surprises, but I found a few entertaining tidbits and a photo of bridesmaid Nanine Brent. Caton Mactavish, the ribbon boy, grew up to become a Baltimore newspaper journalist and close friend of Ogden Nash and H.L. Mencken.

Nicholas S. Hill, Jr. (1869-1936), my 2nd great uncle, was Mary (Hill) Mills’ older brother, and was an usher in the wedding. Uncle Nick was also the father of my favorite extra grandmother, Isabelle (Hill) Guthrie (1896-1995).

Nanine Brent, a distant cousin of Mary’s, was a bridesmaid. This photo was taken at another wedding where Nanine was a bridesmaid.
My visit to the Cathedral in April was a thrill. The building, described as America’s first cathedral, is glorious and was beautifully restored not long ago.

Baltimore Cathedral, c. 1902. Designed by Benjamin Henry Latrobe and completed in 1821

Baltimore Cathedral interior, April 2018

Cardinal James Gibbons, c. 1903.
Following the wedding ceremony, guests joined the family at Nicholas and Mary Hill’s home just a few blocks away at 813 North Charles Street for a breakfast. I had the thrill of being able to visit this house. The first floor now houses a vintage clothing shop (The Zone), so I popped in and got a look at the parlor, which still retains a bit of original detail.
The newlyweds, James and Mary, returned from their wedding trip and lived here with her parents for the first year of their marriage, which meant that my Granny, Elsie Mills, was probably born in this house.

813 North Charles Street, home of the Hill family and location of the wedding breakfast.

813 North Charles Street, parlor
And the article from the Baltimore Sun, June 1, 1898:
Historic view of the Cathedral and photo of Cardinal Gibbons are from the Library of Congress collections.
This post is a participant in the Genealogy Blog Party.
Relationships:
Major Nicholas Snowden Hill (1839-1912) and Mary Watkins Cocke (1834-1903) – 2nd great grandparents
Dr. James J. Mills, Jr. and Mary Hill (1875-1937) – great grandparents
Elsie (Mills) Oliver (1899-1993) grandmother
My mum
Me
So interesting! Thanks, Kim.
LikeLike
Thanks for always offering a kind word, Haden. It means a lot to know somebody’s reading!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Excellent idea to research all of the ushers, bridesmaids etc. because you never know when a ‘rabbit hole’ will prove worthwhile!
LikeLiked by 2 people
And those rabbit holes are often pretty entertaining!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Pingback: Reverse GenTraveling Research (by using the B.U.G. Club!) |
What a delightful episode, especially that you got to see and experience the wonderful places where your family history took place.
LikeLike
Thanks so much! It really was special for me.
LikeLike
What a fabulous post about your great grandparents’ wedding. You are so fortunate to have such a detailed wedding announcement in your collection — right down to the fashion details and a list of who attended the breakfast. My Welsh-Irish paternal grandmother grew up in Baltimore and, like you, I made a genealogy road trip there to visit family sights. You might enjoy taking a look at https://mollyscanopy.com/2017/03/1992-building-a-baltimore-baedeker/ Look forward to your future Genealogy Blog Party posts.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks so much, Molly! This is the branch of my family I grew up closest to, so it was very special to find that much information and to visit the places. I’ll go read about your own trip to Baltimore now!
LikeLiked by 1 person
You are SO lucky to have this complete description of your great-grandparents’ special wedding, and be able to visit the places where they worshipped and lived.
LikeLiked by 1 person
What a spectacular wedding that must have been and how much fun it was for you to be able to retrace their footsteps.
LikeLiked by 1 person
How fantastic that you were able to visit where your mother’s family was from and retrace their steps! How lucky that you were able to find your great grandparents’ wedding announcement, let alone how detailed it was! I enjoyed reading about their wedding and your trip. 🙂
LikeLike
Thanks, Diane. I was pretty thrilled to be there and then to find that incredibly detailed announcement! Thanks for reading.
LikeLike